Submissive

As we so often do, Vicky and I were chatting on IM last night, when she said something really interesting. We were talking about how she is thinking about getting a new job, when at 8:34 p.m. she typed:

"oh by the way can i be your sex slave"

To say I was taken aback would be an understatement! Bear in mind that this woman and I have known each other less than a month, we have seen each other twice, although on each occasion it was for an entire weekend. But to come out with something like that so early in a relationship is pretty amazing!

The rest of the conversation went something like this:

"I'm inclined to say Yes, but perhaps you should explain first..."

"i would like to dress up for you in a sexy outfit (maids?) and be kept to have sex with you anywhere and everywhere you feel like taking me and making me yours!!"

"Is that something you have done before?"

"no"

"but it's a fantasy?"

"yes"

"and you want to make it come true".
That was not a question.

"yep"

"you trust me that much?"

"of course"

"what is it about this that appeals to you?"

"well its a milder form of control and the thought of being kept and fucked by someone i trust whenever is a turn on"

I wondered just how seriously she wanted to take this. Was it something that she wanted to try for an hour or two to see if she liked it, or was this a lifestyle choice she was making?
"Hmm. So you would like this to be for a whole day or longer?"

"day and night would be nice. woken up to find you having your wicked way with me a few times would be lovely"

We spent the next hour talking about sexual positions, what turned us on, being tied up, domination, outfits etc. etc. It was Hot!

She likes the idea of bondage, and has twice said that she likes being spanked, but she hasn't mentioned being humiliated or punished in any way. I suspect that she is turned on simply by the idea of being completely submissive, but only in a sexually situation. I don't think her fantasy goes beyond being sexually 'used' but no more than that. It's purely a role-play thing.

We are going to have to work out the boundaries and how it would work before we actually indulge, so we will talk about it this weekend and maybe experiment a little the next time we meet. I am, however, already thinking of scenarios.