Most women know that a 'blow job' is anything but. Men derive little pleasure in having their lover blow on their penis. It's the licking and sucking, in concert with some subtle hand movements that generate the most pleasure. But 'blow job' is not the only sexual misnomer. There is another that apparently fewer women have actually realised is not as accurately named as it should be - 'tug job'.
The 'tug job' or 'hand job' can be just as satisfying as fellatio when performed correctly, but in recent months two women - and not young naive ones, either - have both demonstrated that they have not grasped the fundamentals of a good hand job.
The key lies in the realisation that the hand/s should mimic the feel of a tight vagina as far as possible. During normal penetrative sex, stimulation of the penis occurs almost entirely in the forward thrust, not the withdrawal stroke. It stands to reason therefore that the most stimulating hand motion should be a pushing one, not a pulling one.
Hand Job Advice.com has some short video demonstrations of various techniques to use. The pulling motion is called 'milking the bull' but I wouldn't recommend it. My personal favourites are the Corkscrew, the Washing Machine, the Slippy Grippy, and the Swizzle Stick. You could also try the Shocker and see if your man likes it in conjunction with the other techniques.
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